Weathering Life’s Storms

Weathering Life’s Storms

How to Cultivate and Practice Compassion in Difficult Times

Life’s storms can leave us feeling uncertain and scared. But the account of Matthew 14 shows us that there is hope and compassion even in the midst of chaos. Jesus reaching out His hand during the storm is a powerful symbol of His unwavering compassion. This simple action teaches us about the power and necessity of compassion in our own lives. Let’s take a closer look at this narrative, explore its depths, and learn how we can extend our hand of compassion during life’s difficult times.

The Storm

The account of Matthew 14 begins with Jesus and His disciples in a boat surrounded by turbulent waters. The storm was fierce, and the winds were strong, causing the waves to crash against the boat. In this moment of chaos and fear, we find Peter stepping out onto the water at the command of Jesus. But as soon as he takes his eyes off Jesus and focuses on the storm, he begins to sink. (Matthew 14:22-36)

The Hand of Compassion

As Peter cries out for help, Jesus immediately reaches out His hand to rescue him. This simple act shows us the power and importance of compassion in difficult times. Despite the chaos and danger around them, Jesus extends His hand without hesitation or judgment. He wants to save Peter and bring him to safety.

Luke 6:36 tells us, “Be compassionate, just as your Father is compassionate.” (NLT) This verse invites us to mirror God’s compassionate heart in our actions. The account in Matthew 14 depicts the Father’s heart as one of boundless compassion. Despite the tumultuous circumstances, Jesus, representing the heart of the Father, did not hesitate to reach out His hand to Peter. The storm did not deter his compassion, nor did Peter’s lack of faith limit it.

Our loving heavenly Father’s compassion is present even in our weakest moments, serving as a safety net when we falter. This compassion is not just a passive emotion but is actively reaching out, much like Jesus reaching out to Peter. It is the divine love that extends beyond judgment, beyond our failures and our fears. It provides comfort, assurance, and a sense of belonging amidst life’s storms.

If we are to take the message of Luke 6:36 to heart, then we should strive to replicate this compassion in our own lives. To be a reflection of the divine compassion in our actions, we must be ready to reach out a helping hand without hesitation, just as Jesus did for Peter. This is the heart of the Father – a heart of unwavering, active compassion.

Cultivating Compassion

But how can we cultivate and practice compassion in our own lives? It starts with acknowledging that everyone experiences storms in life, whether they are physical, emotional, or spiritual. We all have moments where we feel overwhelmed and scared. Recognizing our common struggle is the first step in fostering empathy, the seed from which compassion grows. Therefore, as we interact with others, we must remember that they, too, face their storms. Our conversations, actions, and responses should emanate from this understanding. As we remember Jesus’s compassion in the storm, we should strive to be a beacon of hope to those around us, reaching out our hands to support, uplift, and comfort. It’s in these interactions, these opportunities to engage with others, that we genuinely manifest the lessons from Matthew 14. Whether it’s a kind word, a listening ear, or a helping hand, our actions, inspired by divine compassion, can touch lives and make a real difference. This is the essence of compassion – to reach out in love, irrespective of the storms, reflecting the heart of the Father in our every interaction.

Cultivating compassion in our day-to-day interactions is a prayerful, deliberate, consistent effort that can be encapsulated in three simple, practical steps:

  1. Focus on Understanding: Before you react, take a moment to understand the other person’s point of view. Remember, everyone is fighting their own battles. So, the next time someone acts in a way that seems irrational to you, instead of becoming defensive, try to understand why they’re behaving that way. This shift in perspective can lead to a more compassionate response.
  2. Practice Empathy: Empathy is putting yourself in someone else’s shoes. It’s about feeling what they’re feeling. Throughout your day, consciously put yourself in the other person’s place. What are they going through? How would you want someone to react if you were in their situation? By practicing empathy, you are nurturing your ability to respond compassionately.
  3. Respond with Kindness: This step involves transforming your understanding and empathy into action. Let your responses throughout the day be guided by kindness. Whether offering a listening ear, providing encouragement, or lending a helping hand, every act of kindness reflects compassion.

By incorporating these steps into your daily interactions, you can make compassion a natural part of your demeanor, reflecting Jesus’s actions in Matthew 14. As we cultivate compassion, we become a beacon of hope and love in the lives of those we encounter, radiating God’s love and comfort to those weathering life’s storms. As a follower of Jesus, we should desire to reflect Him in every encounter we have throughout the day.

The Power of Compassion

The encounter of Mattew 14 of Jesus reaching out His hand during the storm teaches us that compassion can calm our fears, give us strength, and bring hope in difficult times. It reminds us that we are not alone and that someone is always willing to extend a hand of compassion.

Compassion, in its essence, is a powerful force that carries God’s healing, love, and light into the world. It’s a divine instrument that God uses to touch hearts and transform lives. When we allow God’s compassion to flow through us, we become channels of His love, leading people closer to Jesus.

God’s compassion is transformative; it heals wounds, breaks walls, and illuminates the darkest corners of life. When Jesus reached out His hand to save Peter, He demonstrated the transformative power of compassion. Peter, trembling in fear, found hope and salvation in Jesus’s compassionate act. This encounter transformed Peter’s life, leading him closer to Jesus and deepening his faith.

As followers of Jesus, we are called to exhibit this same compassion, demonstrating the love of Christ in tangible ways. By expressing understanding, empathy, and kindness, we mirror Jesus’s compassion, helping others glimpse His love and glory. These acts of compassion can soften hearts, bridge gaps, and ignite hope, leading individuals one step closer to Jesus.

The beauty of compassion lies in its ripple effect. Each act of compassion sends waves of love and kindness into the world, touching lives and drawing them closer to the Source of all compassion. As we emulate Jesus’s compassion, we create opportunities for God to work through us, using us as His instruments to bring transformation and glory to His name. Compassion, thus, becomes a pathway to point people to Jesus.

Remember, compassion is not confined to grand gestures; it is found in our everyday interactions. As we engage with others, let us strive to emulate Jesus’s compassion, allowing God’s love to flow through us, touching and transforming lives. This way, we become active participants in God’s grand narrative of redemption, leading people one step closer to Jesus through the power of compassion.


In conclusion, the story of Matthew 14, with Jesus reaching out His hand during a storm, reminds us of the power and necessity of compassion in our lives. It teaches us to cultivate and practice compassion towards ourselves and others, especially during difficult times. As we weather life’s storms, let’s remember this powerful lesson and extend our hand of compassion to those in need. So, let’s practice God the Father’s compassion every day and spread His healing power throughout the world. Let us be the guiding light that shines His compassion through the darkest storms, offering hope and love to those who need it most. The storm may rage on, but with God’s compassion as our anchor, we can weather any storm.

One Comment

  1. scott Ekstrom

    Dear Jeff, Another important series explaining and showing God’s Love and compassion through our savior Jesus Christ. It is faith building, and transformational. Jesus always teaches by example, showing us how important it is to show compassion to others by reaching out a helping hand to others in the storms we all face.
    Thank you,

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